Pretty Happy

This was written for the August 12 issue of my hometown paper, The Prospect-News.

Pretty Happy

All kiddos hear variations of ‘pretty is as pretty does’ growing up. Where did Momma get that idea anyway? Probably from Grandma, who heard it from her granny, who heard it from hers, all the way back to the 1300’s. Chaucer used it in “The Wife of Bath’s Tale” around 1387. In 1776 Oliver Goldsmith penned ‘handsome is as handsome does’ in “The Vicar of Wakefield.” The lesson is universal and timeless that it isn’t the perfect pair of shoes or britches, the right hat or dress, that generates accolades. It is the actions of the ones in those shoes and britches that matter most – a life-long lesson.

In the 1994 movie favorite, Forrest Gump’s mother expanded the thought to ‘stupid is as stupid does’ that served Forrest well. A lesson learned.

“Happiness is as happiness does’ is yet another life-long lesson plan for most of us. Maybe it isn’t as elusive as it seems. We pull the strings that bring happiness our way with our thoughts, choices and actions. Benjamin Disraeli said it this way: “Action may not always bring happiness, but there is no happiness without action.”

How can we go wrong with actions filtered through ‘pretty is as pretty does’ and ‘stupid is as stupid does’ on our way to happy? We’re there before we realize it.

About Teresa Pearson Lee

Retired after 33 years of teaching English and French (one year in private school in Memphis, TN and the rest in public school in Doniphan, MO. Enjoying new adventures - all those things I put off for lack of time, energy, now I can try them! Pottery, writing, traveling, camping, kayaking, dancing, listening to some of the best live music ever, and making lively new friendships. All christened with an appreciation for great red wine! Created and operated KC's on the Current, then sold it and managed it for new owners. You might still find me at the reservation desk when spring rolls around. Born and raised in St. Louis, MO near The Hill. Though a transplant to Southeast Missouri, still a city gal at the core with a deep love of the natural resources in these Ozark foothills. Currently I am a content coordinator for Poplar Bluff Living Magazine and a columnist/stringer for the local weekly The Prospect News. My rescue Siamese helps with most of the proofreading; he has a great ear. I relish the solitude easily had in the Mark Twain Forest but thoroughly enjoy lively outings for music, wine, conversation close to home or in my beloved hometown. Technology is my greatest challenge but so worth the shared connections. There may be a need for solitude but there is little loneliness. The material in this blog written by Teresa Lee is her property and cannot be used without express written consent to do so.
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